Post-Christmas bribery sees many a parent nagging their
brood to put pen to paper and write notes of thanks for presents received from
an eclectic mix of relatives and friends. Thx 4 a gr8 gift. With youngsters now
communicating via text message and email, is there still educational value in
writing good old thank you letters? Though I can’t confess to have been aware
of the reasoning behind this at the time, reflection on personal childhood experiences
highlights what I believe are important social and practical skills learned.
During the excitement of opening a pile of gifts on
Christmas morning, there is nothing like the knowledge that thank you letters
lie ahead, to encourage children to read the gift label and remember where each
one came from. Encouraging children to gain some sense of the value of the time,
thought and cash that has been invested will surely lead to their being more
socially conscious adults.
Handwriting a legible, interesting or entertaining letter
without the ability to spell-check, Google, copy and paste or delete mistakes
practices valuable composition skills which, though still crucial for
performance in examinations, some may argue are declining thanks to technology.
Creativity and imagination, as well as the occasional and justifiable diplomatic
white lie, are essential skills for composing enthusiastic comments about a
gift which may not be entirely what was expected or desired.
Creating something tangible that will be treasured,
filed-away and re-read by proud parents and grandparents in my view offers the most
important lesson of all. Putting time and effort into writing a few carefully
chosen words purely because they will make someone else smile.
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