So the new
format 11+ tests for grammar schools are this week and the annual parent
‘nail-biting fest’ begins. Here are a few tips to ensure your worries for the
outcome do not transfer to your child, who should feel confident to take the
tests in their stride, knowing that whatever the result, you will be proud of
the effort they made.
Avoid
discussing fears over the result with a partner or friends within your child’s
earshot. This will raise the pressure they feel and lead to raised stress levels.
Your child should know that you see the test simply as a gauge of their ability
so they will gain a place at the right school. Use of the word ‘fail’ should be
limited. You must reassure them that whatever senior school they go to, you
will make sure they have access to opportunities that will lead to success.
Have a relaxed
evening the night before the test and a good night’s sleep. Last-minute
cramming into the night will not allow their brain to switch off and will lead
to an unsettled night, meaning they will be less alert for test day
.
A good
breakfast is crucial. I read recently that research suggests blueberries can
enhance concentration and memory, so why not try some sprinkled on breakfast
cereal?
Plan a treat
or buy a small gift to celebrate their efforts and the test being over. Whether
you also plan a treat for results day is up to you, but now is your chance to
focus on rewarding the effort they spent preparing, whatever the outcome.
If you are looking to review
alternatives to grammar, incase the 11+ doesn’t go to plan, why not visit The
Future Schools Fair on 21st Sept in Aylesbury? A free event for
parents. For more details and to register for free tickets visit the website www.futureschoolsfair.com
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